Is you so-called friend always putting you down? Saying random negative things? Are they make you feel as if you aren’t worth it? If so, they are TOXIC!
In everyone’s lifetime, we will all come across a toxic friend or …ten. So, unfortunately we have to find ways on how to deal with these types of problems, as they ain’t teaching it in school! So we have come up with 3 ways to deal with that Toxic Friend!
1. Ask her/him what their problem is!
Be direct and clear. Don’t bat around the bush. Go on, and meet him/her at the mall and confront him/her. Have confidence, take a deep breath and just say,”What has been going on with you lately?.” And of course they will reply,”Nothing!”, but don’t back down, just persist. Say”It’s not nothing, you have been acting quite hostile towards me and [insert here]”. Just corner him/her until he/she cracks under the pressure, blurting out the thing that is making him/her pissed off with you.
2. Get Help!
If you’re somehow already aware of the PROBLEM, and if it isn’t solvable between you/you and your friends,then you need to bring in the big guns! For Example; if this problem is something like depression etc. then you need to see someone like a counsellor to get down to the bottom of what is effecting your friendship and how you could come to terms with what has been said and been done, and whether or not you guys can move on from that or if the damage is too big and horrific that you guys need to call it quits! Its up to you guys to decide.
3. Cut the bitch out!
For those of you who have already tried step one or step two doesn’t apply to you, I repeat CUT THE BITCH OUT! They gotta GO! People who just have the goal in life to ruin other people’s hopes and dreams are NOT worth it. They just drag you down, and have no desire to change. This is why you have to ice them out of the friendship, leave them hanging dry, and then when he/she realises what he/she is missing out on, then he/she will come crawling back, wanting to be your friend again. OR, she will show her true colours, get a new squad,TRY to terrorise your life but fail. But, hey, just keeping it real! Either way icing he/she out is the best idea , and you know it.
So my darlings, hope I have solved your “Toxic Waste” problems, leaving you with an almost stress free life.
And like always, if you guys need any advice on whatever topic, email me at sisters@theyellowflower.co.uk
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